redemption.

i find it really really hard to respect people who pretend they like one person and then oblivious to other people hitting on them but then reciprocate that person's flirtations... its just hard to respect people like that. like actually. people can't be oblivious to people cheesing with them honestly, theres a limit. you know when someone is cheesing with you or you're just not very smart, sorry. and if you know you're cheesing with multiple people, then theres something wrong with you, especially if you're seeing one person, like actually established that you're seeing each other. those people aren't worth your time, better to ignore them and move on with life. people who can't respect your feelings for them by playing around with other people too, they don't fucking deserve your feelings and efforts. they don't fucking deserve shit all.  and no, that wasn't hypothetical. people aren't so stupid to not notice when you're flirting with other people, just be honest with yourself and man the fuck up and stop being a fucking massive cheesewhore. its one of the most unattractive and pathetic things, it doesn't even make other guys jealous its just a turn off.